Love at first sight

What is love at first sight ? Is there any such thing or it is just a romantic dream ?

Lets see what happen when we see a person . He/she may look attractive to us . Now what is the next step ?It depends on whether there is any communication between them or not.

1. In case of no communication we forget him/her . Sometimes we remember , but with time new faces replace him/her.
2. Sometimes a good conversation may happen . Both will feel attracted toward each other . Now they may spend some time with each other and share their feelings. After some time , they realize that the relation is not going smooth for one or other reason and they call it off. In such cases we generally call it crush or infatuation .
   
3. But it may happen that the person involved keep on having a good relation , with time they realize they are in love . And now comes the declaration of love .

Now if we will backtrack the third case we can proclaim such love as Love at first sight .

GIRLS ARE BEAUTIFUL AND GENTS ARE INTELLIGENT

Someone posted a thread in Orkut with this question ::why we see that "GIRLS ARE BEAUTIFUL AND GENTS ARE INTELLIGENT " ?

I replied in this manner ::

I don't think "GIRLS ARE BEAUTIFUL AND GENTS ARE INTELLIGENT " is true even if you generalize it.

You can call anyone beautiful or intelligent depending upon your definition .We generally find us unable to express ourselves correctly so in simple terms we say "hey that girl is beautiful" , we may mean different at that time . But beautiful encompasses a lot of qualities.

similarly for intelligent . Whom will you call intelligent ? But what you seem to say ( as I think) that boys have more logical skills. That is a biological fact . Similarly girls have better communication skills.

one more reason why we find girls beautiful is because that is our nature . To search for a girl. May b girls don't find other girl as much beautiful as we find them

BTW , the person with highest IQ in the world is a female .

I have thought a lot about intelligence and beautiful . One of the reason is that I have been called intelligent sometimes (really) and I have been asked many times " hey is that girl beautiful ?"( my answer is always no ) .

and what is intelligence ? It is very easy to give some rules for determining it , but it will never be complete . It is very important to see things in their relative frame . Nothing is absolute .

We say someone getting 90% is intelligent . Is that so ? That is more capacity to remember and write articulately . We generally think in short-term , so a decision which may look intelligent now may not look in long-term . What will we call such decisions . And most importantly , what about persons who renounce everything they have and follows a different path . was Buddha intelligent?

and beautiful . What is beauty ? Everybody has his/her own concept of beauty . Even if we will keep definition of beauty strictly physical , at different times ,at different places , different people have defined it in their own way . This is too much of stereotyping.